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How can I protect my Montessori child from bullying at school?

 

Bullying is one of the most serious challenges children may face in school, especially children educated using the Montessori method, which promotes:

  • Independence

  • Emotional sensitivity

  • Ability to express oneself

These beautiful qualities can sometimes make a child a target for bullying if they are not supported by the necessary social skills.


 Understanding your child's nature

The first step in protecting your child is to know their personality well.
Montessori children are often confident but very sensitive to criticism or ridicule.
The more you understand his strengths and weaknesses, the easier it will be to support his response to difficult situations.


 Building self-confidence

Self-confidence is the first line of defense against bullying.

  • Praise his small achievements.

  • Let him make decisions appropriate for his age.

  • Share with him that he has the right to be different from others.


 Teaching confrontation skills

It is important for children to learn how to respond to bullying in a firm but non-aggressive manner.
Practice with short sentences such as:

“Stop that.” “I don't like that.”
Sometimes, just a confident look is enough to stop an attacker.


 Strengthening communication with teachers

Stay in regular contact with your child's teachers at school and share your observations about your child's sensitivities or special needs.
Cooperation between family and school reduces the chances of bullying continuing or being ignored.


 Create a supportive environment at home

Home is where a child regains confidence after a difficult day.

Listen carefully when he talks about a situation. Don't dismiss his feelings. Tell him that asking adults for help is not a weakness but a strength.


 Teaching the values of empathy and respect

The Montessori method is based on respect for oneself and others.
The Montessori approach is based on the idea that when children are imbued with these values, they become more aware that bullying is unacceptable behavior, whether they are victims or witnesses. Self and others.


 When do you need immediate intervention?

If you notice that bullying is continuing and affecting your child's mental health or performance, you should:

  • Contact the school immediately.

  • Seek support from a psychologist if necessary.


 Protecting your child from bullying does not mean isolating them from the world, but rather equipping them with the tools and skills to be strong, confident, and capable of facing difficult situations.

 At Batla Academy, we believe that Montessori education not only produces unique children, but also builds personalities capable of living with dignity and respect in a diverse society.

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